Why is this cat rolling a watermelon out of the sea? lol. Anyway I'm glad my neighborhood isn't flooded, the worst I got were these three ponds in my backyard and a little river at the side of my house.. from what I've seen on the news a lot of people weren't exactly that lucky.

Who's tired of the narrow hollywood standards of beauty, the growing obsession with cosmetic surgery (mutilation really), underweight barbie wannabes, vapid cookie cutter celebs, and the abundance of American girls with fake blond hair who all look exactly alike these days? Ya, I am. What is most concerning to me though is the way cosmetic surgery is beginning to look like the norm, purely thanks to the media and mainstream porn. Women notice what men are jerking off to, and sooner or later think there must be something wrong with THEIR bodies since they don't match the wretched, plastic porn actresses that guys seem to love, right? So they decide to get "designer vaginas" and ruin their breasts with implants. All of a sudden cosmetic surgeons are amassing tons of requests from women to slice into their breasts and stuff huge bags of silicone under them, cut up and rearrange their genitals (labiaplasty), and even apply dangerous chemicals to the skin around their anus in order to lighten it. Not even kidding. This ridiculous skin bleaching is what most porn actresses have to do for the popular anal porn, since of course, regular sex just isn't good enough anymore; the porn industry likes to see every hole in a woman's body as something that needs to be completely "conquered". This includes her face. You see, apparently cumming on a girl's face is imperative in porn, the more humiliating and disgusting, the better. I'm not sure how exactly the actresses bear pretending to enjoy everything and put up with this shitty treatment just for money, but the fact that a HUGE percentage of them are drug addicts or have a history of being sexually abused as children (or both) says quite a lot about how their brains are wired, and why they ended up in porn. I used to think the porn actresses themselves were the main problem, a shameful ignorance on my part that reflected that good old fashioned victim-blaming attitude I see a lot. Girl gets raped? Its all her fault, she was drunk or wearing a short skirt. Women stuck and being abused in the porn industry? Their fault too, they got into it. And that isn't true, its just conveniently ignoring all of the very real problems that have led up to this.

Women need to see the reality of things and know that the porn industry is our enemy, not something to imitate. There is however, porn, or erotica as I prefer to call it, that does not treat women like shit and degrade them, or demand that they mutilate their bodies to be more appealing to lecherous men who are better off with a blow up doll than a real human being. I'm not against erotica as it is respectful of both women and men, and is done in good taste, focusing on all aspects of female and male sexuality entwined, rather than just obsessing over the penis and objectified parts of a woman's body. Unfortunately this erotica is somewhat rare and seems to be only getting trampled over by the more mainstream, degrading, bullshit porn.

Then there's another thing I've noticed. Why is infantalizing women considered sexy? Here's a pretty good example of such infantalization:



Pigtails, pouty lips, big eyes, and looking "innocent" are things we associate with children and babies. So HOW THE FUCK does it end up being so sexualized? Childish and weak looking women should not be a turn on for anyone. I am fucking tired of the obsession with 'barely legal" girls. What exactly is so appealing about girls that look like 15 year olds or younger? Sickos. I think the truth is just that there are more pedophiles- well closet pedophiles running around than most would believe.

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